Erasmus writes to his dear friend Francis Theodoric expressing concern about his friend's apparent sadness and troubled appearance. He urges Francis to share what is troubling him and offers his help either through action or counsel, promising to remedy the situation if he is the cause of the distress. Erasmus emphasizes that his own happiness depends on Francis's well-being and encourages him to show strength of character.
Erasmus of Rotterdam to his friend Francis, greetings. Since my love for you is so great that nothing can be added to it, I could not refrain from sending you my letters from time to time; for I think no duty of friendship is more pleasant than to use this mutual exchange of writing. Therefore, my dearest Francis, as I observe more carefully, your brow, which has long seemed somewhat sad to me, portends some misfortune. For internal grief of the soul usually bursts forth upon the countenance, and the disposition of the mind shines forth in the brow just as in a mirror. And so I understand clearly (though uncertain what it is) that there is certainly something that pains you, that torments you. And by Hercules, my Francis (believe me), your pain pains me too, nor can there be any place for joy in me when I see you consumed by sorrow. But I earnestly ask you to tell me what it is that troubles you. If my efforts can accomplish anything, I will help you either in deed or certainly with advice. But if the cause of your sorrow arose from me, I will take care that it is corrected by me as soon as possible. I beg you, half of my soul, do not torment yourself so grievously over a matter of little importance. Show yourself a man, cast off whatever softer spirit is in you. In this way you will have taken care of yourself and will certainly have made me, who loves you most dearly, cheerful and happy.